female better than male???

can we consume that a female has more 'benefits' than a male in a relationship?

waiting guys to show up themselves?
being protected, spoon-fed or what?

a scene which always occurs in our lives:
she has feel towards him,
unfortunately, he does not know......
waiting for him...... as usual in 'traditional way'......
who could tell she needs to wait until which day?

let's see what i meant by 'traditional way'......
*guys go for a girl, ppl commented "normal lah......"
*girls go for a guy, ppl commented "don't want face......"
*guys waiting for a girl, ppl commented "useless......"
*girls waiting for a guy, ppl commented "biasalah......"

so, could we conclude that guys SHOULD and have the RIGHTS to go for their belovers?!